What if she was from Fukushima or near the area? To his horror, later that evening Zdenka walked through the door, doused in diesel fuel. Just imagine buying bottled water in a train station, than suddenly get hit with blood and body parts. I mean why would you say that about a dead person unless you were either completely without an ounce of compassion in your heart, socially maladriot, or you knew and hated the person. A young mother was killed when she jumped in front of the train at the Wellawa Waraddana railway crossing yesterday (24) afternoon. We talked to BestReviews nutrition expert, Molly Bremer, about her favorite whole grains and how to use them. Leighane Melsadie Redmond, 27, had been taken to court over unpaid bills before jumping onto the tracks atTaplow station in Buckinghamshire on February 18, 2019. Plus, in Japanese society, past and present, there is NO stigmata (sic) on suicide. The identity of the woman is unknown at this time. If people wish to suicide, whatever, just dont take down others with you. Japan Burakimin, come on man. Cleo -- how dare you choose to lecture someone who is contemplating suicide? There are organizations and individuals out there that are trying to deal with this societal problem, but I think it takes a very special type of person to be able to tackle this head-on. There is a good deal of toing and froing.. Some subway lines were rerouted. , updated People who commit suicide are selfish and in this case she even hurt innocent bystanders. the person was sick of mind. It breaks my heart. It is being investigated by police as a suspected case of 'child destruction . If she'd had someone to listen to her - really listen - this might not have happened. Had police been observing her, they would have approached her because of her behaviour., The coroner said: At this stage, Melsadie is becoming rather frustrated and upset with her. 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EXCLUSIVE - Revealed: Carol Kirkwood's secret toyboy fianc - 13 years her junior - is a divorced police 'Digital antidepressants' to be rolled out on the NHS as health bosses give eight apps and web-based therapy Do not sell or share my personal information. contact the editor here. The ability to comment on our stories is a privilege, not a right, however, and that privilege may be withdrawn if it is abused or misused. The following service changes were implemented, according to the MTA: If you or somebody you know are having suicidal thoughts call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 800-273-TALK (8255) or call 1-888-NYC-WELL (9355) to speak with a counselor. The only selfish people are those who criticised this poor woman. Call the Samaritans on 116 123 or email them atjo@samaritans.org. Suicide is complex, but without a doubt, there needs to be FAR more done here for mental illness. But having witnessed that (note that nothing happened) I felt really sick. I`m not a psychologist but that would be my impression. She later made a number of phone calls, including one to her prospective employer and another fairly lengthy call with her landlord, Hightown Housing Association. papigiulio: "why do people consistently suicide by jumping in front of a train? There is SOME counselling, but it's still woefully inadequate and carries a certain stigma with it. Following a scan, the couple were overjoyed to find out their prayers had been answered and they were expecting a little girl. She was behind on her rent, etcetera. According to police, the woman, Premalatha of Senthil Nagar in Urapakkam, had quarrelled . I bow to those with deep enough compassion. Police are currently trying to identify the deceased. A Long Island Railroad train bound for Rockaway Beach was gliding into the East New York Station at Atlantic Avenue and Manhattan Crossing about 5 o'clock yesterday afternoon when the. Royal Mail worker Zdenka Yabani spiralled downhill after a scan of her unborn daughter revealed the news that her baby was 'small' and could have a facial abnormality. The much-in-love couple married and moved to Manchester in the UK in July 2005. 'She had to be admitted to hospital two weeks after we came home,' said the husband. Fax: +81 3 5829 5919 If you are screwed up, go into that forest at the foot of Fuji and do us all a favour PS - don't wanna sound callous, she may have been mentally sick, but it's possible this selfish woman has destroyed other people's lives. This really involves picking her right up to the extent of leaning over. Get real. The MTA confirmed that somebody was hit at the station and that 1, 2, 3, 4 and 5 train service was affected by the ensuing emergency response. I personally think the whole 'ganbare' and 'I must not make a scene' are partially to blame. I wonder what happened ? Describing CCTV footage showing the mother and daughter today, Assistant Coroner Ian Wade KC told Beaconsfield Coroner's Court: 'Sadly, what we can see is that she gathers Melsadie up in her arms and jumps carefully from the platform down to what is known as the forefoot and is then struck by the train.'. When do the clocks change in 2023? That's what this woman did, she took her personal problem and ruined a whole bunch of strangers' lives with them. where a woman and a child were at various subway stations yesterday . A heavily pregnant mother-of-two jumped in front of a high speed train after discovering her unborn baby girl could have a facial deformity, a coroner heard. And quite frankly, here in Japan I have no idea at all how you would go about it. Another sad and quiet tragedy unfolds. How absurd and heartless to say, "legalize suicide". As for counselling, this country's culture is built on saving face. TOKYO. The main thing is mental ilnnes should be seen and treated as any other illness. For that you are lucky. You know, the earthquakes, the rolling blackouts, the heat, etc. Somehow she didn't fit in to it. Compassion is free. Then again, she may not have been depressed at all. That wouldn't be selfish, it would be malevolent. "It's a shame that because of her actions others were hurt, and with the Japanese being as they are, I doubt as well that others were traumatized by this woman's actions as well.". One last thing: I don't think it's entirely wrong to criticize this woman's act to an extent. Mr Wade asked the officer: 'I think your financial investigator looked at whether she had made a voluntary arrangement in terms of indebtedness through court proceedings. Sign up for free Patch newsletters and alerts. tired of the traffic backed up from suicides? NOT everything is easy. There are many selfish ways of committing suicide which involve pain or difficulty or 'meiwaku' for others (actually the English contains a nuance not in Japanese, ie of committing a crime, so perhaps 'ending your own life' might be a better way to phrase it than 'committing suicide'). If you have a communicable disease it can't be helped and you need to get treatment, but it doesn't excuse you if you intentionally infect others. While this might sound callous, the Narita Express (airport-bound ones anyway) is the worst train to jump in front of as far as ruining other people's days- I wonder how many people missed their flights because of this? Parents as well as educational institutions have a responsibility for the wellfare of their youth, not just their grades. Its a mistake. CCTV footage from the location shows a woman jumping in front of a moving train in Ghatkopar station in Mumbai. Personal Assistant for Older New Yorkers in Manhattan, Holy Uproar After Adams Decries Separation Of Church And State, 'People Will Die': FDNY Fire Chiefs Argue Demotions Endanger Public, Winter Storm Dumps Nearly 6 Inches Of Snow Over Parts Of NYC. They don't realize how much of a mental block depression puts on a person. The Japan you do not see everyday up there in the mountains is incredibly stressful. So, after that experience I'm not so keen on excusing those people. That's truly sad. Still, I was always somehow conscious of the fact that there are better options. Spend some time reading up about mental illness and especially depression.". Email: editor@japantoday.com They charge millions of yen for stoppages, extra work, etc Also, Japan's teen suicide rate is among the highest in the world. Not sure what you're saying in the last line, here are you saying you doubt others were traumatized? The court heard how the pair were tragically killed after being struck by a train having been on a platform that was closed to the publicfor around six minutes beforehand. Many here seem to think that suicide is a matter of choice as is the means to commit the act. Make it "trendy"??! Maybe J-goverment needs to import more U.S. and western Psycologist that is familar with the Japanese culture and approach from a different angle. However, they returned just 12 minutes later at 8.17pm. Bereaving families are not only stuck with a funeral, but a huge bill for the suicide. No counseling available in this country? Mother-of-four killed herself by jumping in front of train at packed station moments after sending a text and handing her bag to a stranger Woman was killed yesterday at Wigan North Western . smithinjapan; I already stated about the effects her suicide has on others. Smorkian; FOR GODS SAKE!!! She was, probably as a result of her morbidly depressed state of mind thinking and acting selfishly, ie without thought of others. Steve@CPFC - 100% agree with all of your posts on this thread. why?". Detective Sergeant Simon Rees told the inquest that a financial investigator had examined Ms Redmonds circumstances prior to her death. We had a discussion about having another child, I told her we had two wonderful children and I did not feel it was necessary to have a third and I thought she agreed,' the heartbroken husband said. Everyone could feel and understand each other as much as they understand themselves and events like this would probably cease to exist. Here is a bit of advice to those who seem to think this woman was selfish or a bad person. Or do you think it's more 'compassionate' to just tut-tut and let the suicidal get on with it? Stevea great comment from you that doesn't go on to blame her parents and childhood! By A tragedy and a waste of a life. Going to the top of the building could set off certain alarm bells, so to speak, and someone might notify the authorities or someone else and the person might be talked down. But she couldn't be part of that society, could she? They were sick. To those who have lost a loved one to suicide, me included, compassion is needed. A police official familiar with the case said . 'She in fact picks Melsadie up and literally hoists her over that locked gate and places her on the platform. And the number is increasing - the year before was around 30.000. Whenever something like this happens, there's someone whose job it is to clean up the mess. Do you know how much money her family is going to have to pay to the train company for this? Princess Diana's nieces Lady Eliza and Amelia share 'Appalled and sickened but not surprised at all': Fury of Covid families as WhatsApps 'show Matt Hancock Head over heels for Kate! . In this case I'd bet she didnt want anything more than what she got. 16:07 GMT 13 Nov 2020 Antonia Paget For Mailonline Bad decision on her part. Chiyoda-ku When the temperature gets hotter,many people do strange things they would not have done in a normal situation. Northbound 1 and 3 trains are bypassing 72nd Street. I was trying to get rid of her sadness.'. Woman is left 'looking like Rose West' thanks to unflattering Tory Eurosceptics could take TWO WEEKS to decide whether to back Rishi Sunak's Brexit deal for Northern Watch as shoplifter puts BACK products he's trying to steal after live CCTV hub tells him: 'You're being Is YOUR lifestyle good for your heart? Peopel, pleased educate yourselves on mental illness and what makes a person suicidal and how they are thinking. OZONE PARK, Queens A woman was killed after she jumped in front of a train Friday morning, policesaid. Our DIY expert, Beth Allen, founder of HIP Chicks (Home Improvement Project Chicks), knows which tools you need to take on big projects by yourself. Add Your Voice to CantaNYC, a Community Chorus! Firefighters responded to the station around 5:45 p.m., and EMS pronounced the woman dead on the scene, officials told Patch. Of course she didn't. Having been diagnosed with bipolar disorder, the court heard how Zdenka was not 'terribly keen' on taking her medication and following her discharge from mental health services in March 2017, she kept her husband in the dark and stopped taking it, despite advice. Steve's right! Incredibly (or perhaps not so incredibly) another person did the same thing there today. I doubt she thought that she would harm anybody else in the process, and it's wrong to assume she wanted to. Steve: you make some excellent points about the ones left behind. Your lack of compassion for someone who is obviously driven to the end of her wits psychologically for reasons none of us is privy to is staggering. An unidentified woman was injured when she jumped in front of a southbound No. There are other less 'intrusive ' ways to get to the next life - better to help people get over it though. I think I'd be sick to my stomach if I witnessed that. I doubt she was thinking along those lines though. She was thinking of herself alone. Now, I have said and will continue to berate the system here for their lack of help not only for people thinking about suicide but for mental disorders and illness in general, and the fact that there is still a lot of stigma is disgusting. 'Selfish' is a description, not a judgement. I'm sure she didn't mean to be knocked back onto the platform when she jumped. Paying tribute to his late wife, Mr Yabani added: 'Zdenka was a lovely woman, I was blessed to have her in my life. By 6pm, CCTV showed Ms Redmond was with Melsadie as she tried to book an Uber to an address in Beaconsfield and made a call to her mother, which did not go through. 25/10/2022. 'When she was well, we never had confrontations, the only time we argued was when she didn't want to take her medication. A Great Western Railway employee, Anna Bodja, who witnessed the tragic death, said: 'I heard the fast train approaching, I heard the announcement and I saw the announcement on the board. At 3:17 p.m., at the Broadway and West 96th Street subway station, an unidentified woman jumped in front of a southbound 3 train in an apparent suicide, an NYPD spokesperson told WSR. Life is not just some inconvenience. Thank You. Another example of what happens when emotions are pent up through the pressure of life in Japan. On Monday afternoon, a woman in her 20s, whose name has not yet been released, died when she was struck by Amtrak Train 93, according to rail officials. US firms waiting in the wings read to pump 'billions Parents' fury as schools STILL won't tell them if they are closed tomorrow as teacher strikes continue. Instead of complaining about a few delays to your business i would advise learning a bit about what goes through peoples minds at this time.the fact that someone would actually go through with the act says a lot. ( ) A. bad B. badly C. good D . Many would feel they are losing face by going to a counsellor, that that's a sign of weakness. ), I am even more horrified. 2-8-16 Higashi-Kanda JapanToday why do people consistently suicide by jumping in front of a train? Put up the fences and legalize suicide so people will go for a needle rather than a train. Published on : 24 Feb, 2023, 12:39 pm. There is something seriously wrong with a lot of peoples thinking here and i think you need to add a bit of humanity and empathy to your souls. things will always get better especially if you change the way you live. I think it is wrong and low class to criticise someone who found that this was the best thing for them. Registered in England & Wales | 01676637 |. A woman along with her four-year-old daughter allegedly jumped in front of a goods train following a dispute in the family near Meva Nawada railway station of Sahaspur, police said on Saturday. My life is more complicated>. There are hundreds of ways you can kill yourself without involving the public. Jeremy Clarkson is axed as Who Wants To Be A Millionaire? and even "Didnt he/she love me enough to try and get better/help themselves" can drive people to their own dark place. I very much doubt that she took her own life so that people would miss their flights from Narita. British Transport Police had declared the deaths a suspicious incident and an investigation was launched by their Major Crime team. As for the act being selfish - of course it is. NDTV delivers reliable information across all platforms: TV, Internet and Mobile.Subscribe for more videos: https://www.youtube.com/user/ndtv?sub_confirmation=1Like us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ndtvFollow us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/ndtvDownload the NDTV Apps: http://www.ndtv.com/page/appsWatch more videos: https://khabar.ndtv.com/videos?yt These adverts enable local businesses to get in front of their target audience the local community. sadly it does. She was seen wrapped in a poncho walking hand-in-hand with daughter Melsadie, who was wearing alittle furry parker jacket with a winter hat and gloves, at the station one hour and 12 minutes before their deaths. 'It made me late for work' -type posts - Yes indeed. If you really think about it (which you CAN do if you really try) I don't believe that she went down onto the platform, lined up the shot like a pool player, made sure there were sufficient people in the shop, then jumped infront of the train but if your just Trolling, keep up the good work. Woman killed by oncoming train in Bensonhurst: NYPD. To request removal of your name from an arrest report, submit these required items to arrestreports@patch.com. Awareness of the effects of one's actions on others yet choosing in one's own favor is a requisite of selfishness, and this woman, in all likelyhood, wasn't. She may have lost everything. Young mother, 27, who was behind on her rent and bills as she struggled with cost of living took her three-year-old daughter by the hand and walked in front of a train, inquest hears Leighane Melsadie Redmond had been taken to court over unpaid bills, the inquest at Beaconsfield Coroners Court heard today (November 15). 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